{"id":755,"date":"2011-07-03T19:43:30","date_gmt":"2011-07-04T02:43:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jerrysjuicebar.com\/blog\/?p=755"},"modified":"2011-07-04T06:02:00","modified_gmt":"2011-07-04T13:02:00","slug":"the-myth-of-independence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jerrysjuicebar.com\/blog\/?p=755","title":{"rendered":"The myth of independence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Happy Independence Day.<\/p>\n<p>This is the day that we celebrate those who went before us some 200+ years ago who sacrificed everything to gain independence from Britain and King George.\u00a0 In America, we <strong>LOVE <\/strong>independence.\u00a0 We idolize the rebel.\u00a0 We venerate the &#8216;self-made&#8217; individual.\u00a0 We mythologize the pioneer spirit that accepts no limits, little authority, and absolute self-determination.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/jerrysjuicebar.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/images.jpeg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-756\" style=\"margin: 8px;\" title=\"images\" src=\"http:\/\/jerrysjuicebar.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/images.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"160\" height=\"189\" \/><\/a>But of course the idea of independence &#8211; at least as it is known in popular culture &#8211; is a myth .\u00a0\u00a0 We all exist in a state that is &#8220;in&#8221; dependence.\u00a0 Dependence from King George was simply traded for dependence on a band of vagabond (but quite erudite, stubborn and opinionated!) colonists.\u00a0 It wasn&#8217;t that we suddenly became independent.\u00a0 Rather, we simply shifted our dependence from King George to each other.\u00a0 Consider the last line of the Declaration of Independence:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the  protection of divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our  Lives, our Fortunes and our sacred Honor.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Independence from George.\u00a0 But &#8220;reliance&#8221; on God.\u00a0 And a mutual pledge of our money, honor, and life.\u00a0 Sounds like a lot of dependence to me.<\/p>\n<p>No, dependence is inherent in the human condition. More than that, dependence is something we strive for.\u00a0 If you&#8217;re in business you&#8217;re hoping clients depend on you for goods and services.\u00a0 If you&#8217;re part of a family or community you hope you can depend on them for support.\u00a0 If you&#8217;re a spouse you&#8217;re hoping that your partner is dependent on you for love and affection.<\/p>\n<p>It works the other way around as well.<\/p>\n<p>I want to depend on the people I work with.\u00a0 My wife and family.\u00a0 My faith.\u00a0 You don&#8217;t even have to go high concept.\u00a0 I want to depend on my car.\u00a0 The mailman.\u00a0 My dentist.<\/p>\n<p>Dependencies are what make societies (and economies) function.\u00a0 So it isn&#8217;t a question of being independent or not.<\/p>\n<p>Rather, it is a question of upon what and whom you depend.<\/p>\n<p>A lot of people tell me, &#8220;I&#8217;m not going to depend on anyone but myself.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Good luck with that.<\/p>\n<p>Even the Founding Fathers were smart enough not to go there.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Happy Independence Day. This is the day that we celebrate those who went before us some 200+ years ago who sacrificed everything to gain independence from Britain and King George.\u00a0 In America, we LOVE independence.\u00a0 We idolize the rebel.\u00a0 We venerate the &#8216;self-made&#8217; individual.\u00a0 We mythologize the pioneer spirit that accepts no limits, little authority,&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[],"tags":[10,108],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jerrysjuicebar.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/755"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jerrysjuicebar.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jerrysjuicebar.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jerrysjuicebar.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jerrysjuicebar.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=755"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/jerrysjuicebar.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/755\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":759,"href":"https:\/\/jerrysjuicebar.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/755\/revisions\/759"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jerrysjuicebar.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=755"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jerrysjuicebar.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=755"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jerrysjuicebar.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=755"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}